joviwan wrote:Pride is nice and all but if you can get a job through the Mormon Network, that sounds a lot better than bankruptcy and losing your house.
indeed.
i was just afk hanging out with one of the mormon sisters, having a discussion on feminism and pacifism and transphobia and homophobia and racism and church history. good stuff all around. she said "i used to be a bigot but not anymore after getting to actually know some gay people"
indeed, it is amazing how quickly prejudices can evaporate with a personal relationship. she also asked how i became a feminist and i said people always try to put you in a box based on how you look but sometimes you don't want to be in that box.
feminism is saying those boxes don't have to exist at all.
>:3 wrote:Maybe you can put the two together and find someone with a job who needs a place to live.
God willing that he or she should volunteer, perhaps, but since that sounds like rent, it would be unethical for me to actually ask for money in that situation. Rent is the exploitation of the working class by the owning class and I can't take part in that, regardless of my personal situation. (It is tempting to say it is not exploitation, but rather a combined effort to fight the evil banks. For this reason, I would take a voluntary donation. But, if I charged rent as a condition, I'd be no better than that which I seek to destroy.)
So, while I (selfishly) don't seek such opportunities, if someone came to me needing a place to live, i'd open my door with no explicit conditions. In addition to the economic analysis, the Savior has told us to take in strangers, clothe the naked, feed the hungry (Matthew 25:35). He indeed condemned exploiting their situation for personal gain (Matthew 22:39. Matthew 19:24, among many many others).
I obey these commandments from God not because I expect rewards but because it is just the right to do to. I obey expecting it not to be easy but to be hard, however I am confident in the knowledge that the Lord commands nothing except that he should make a way for it to be possible (1 Nephi 3:7).
As you guys might know, in 2013, I bailed out friends to the tune of $8,500 (while having a pre-tax income of merely $13,000; this is why I'm still fairly deep in debt). While I asked them to help me make the minimum payments, it wasn't a precondition and when they failed to make them, I did not become angry nor take back my future offers. Why? Because it was clear they needed it more than me. If they had the money, I'm sure they'd send some my way. Thus, if they don't, it is because they had bigger things to worry about.
(and i saw on the facebook today that their van was repoed, health insurance rates went up, her workman's comp tied up in litigation, and now she's also being sued by her asshole ex-husband for custody of her daughter... so yeah, their problems are much bigger than mine)
zhaktronz wrote:Christ ADR you are dumb
You can be what you want to be!
Those who are persistent are the best!
Sometimes there'll be tears!
But you'll give it your all.
There's nothing to be afraid of!
It's better to be excited!
You've got such big dreams!
That's why you'll give it your all.