Darksi4190 wrote:RogueIce wrote: nerdraging over just that.
This is only a tangent, but I have a question. When did the term "nerd" start to become a genuine insult in this peer group? I know it has been for a while, usually with the prefix "fat" in front of it, but I can remember a time back in high school when i'd go to SDN to socialize because it was the one place I wouldn't be called a "nerd," or if I was, it was in a friendly and humorous manner.
Somewhere along the line, it turned in to a real term of derision or mockery. People talk about how scrutinizing details makes one a "fatnerd" and thus worthy of mockery. They talk about how franchises should change long-standing elements of their franchises not because change might improve them, but because it would "piss off the nerds," and that would somehow be hilarious. It seems like some people have grown out of the sort of detail analysis this community was originally oriented towards on SDN, and now because they're embarrassed over having participated in it, they mock people who still think its fun.
I'm not making a judgement on it either way, i'm just curious when the shift occurred.
Why would/should you be called a nerd because you like so-called "nerdy" things? In fact why is enjoying Star Wars, Star Trek, anime, video games and whatever a "nerdy" thing to do anyway?
You know what I call people who like Star Trek? People who like Star Trek.
Do I sometimes enjoy the technical discussion? Yes I do. In fact I got rather annoyed when someone decided to barge into a topic about some movie or whatever where people on SDN were having a tech discussion and went all "but what about themes lol" in there. I got no problem with the tech-heads.
What becomes a problem is when they take that sort of thing
too far and that's where nerd-as-pejorative comes in. Heck as in the example above, people here got all up on the characters/themes/etc soap box, and when I saw that being used as a smug "i'm better than you sad nerds" that was, IMO, taking it too far and annoyed me. Just like people going "but the continuity violations!" and/or "why aren't they dropping asteroids SOD broken
" gets under my skin.
Yeah I used to let things like that big me, reference: the SW EU and its piles of crap. But since then I have made an effort to just accept it for what it is. If I don't like a book or movie or whatever and its part of some series or universe I do enjoy, I just ignore it and pretend it never happened as far as the 'verse is concerned.
Basically I just embraced head canon. And that is what made all the difference.