i don't know, i'm not looking through their post historyInfinity Biscuit wrote:Are they sex-positive male "feminists"?

i don't know, i'm not looking through their post historyInfinity Biscuit wrote:Are they sex-positive male "feminists"?
keep in mind that even in places where the laws are lax like vancouver canada large majorities of women are doing it to survive rather than because they want to. globally, at least one survey concluded that roughly 90% of prostitutes would rather do something else for a living but are not financially able to do so, male and female. and then there's violence, rape, murder everywhere. so, my position is that the law should focus on the people actually doing violent things, the johns, and society should focus on ensuring nobody has to engage in prostitution for survival. also, treating sex as a commodity is a disturbing mindset that i fear has negative psychological effects on people.RogueIce wrote:Well certainly not where it's illegal but I thought in places where it was the sex slavery angle wasn't there so much. I mean it probably still exists but they've got more options in going for help. *shrug*
I dunno I've heard both "prostitution is evil" and "prostitution is not terrible if legalized" from various feminists (of the female variety, since I saw IB's post when I hit Submit) so I have no idea what to think about it anymore.
the last bit is largely because i've noted (in my limited experience) that most ex-prostitutes with positive opinions of the trade generally had a great deal of control over who they had sex with and, in at least one interesting case (a guy named scotty bowers) generally engaged in fairly emotionally intimate relationships in the process, so it's not rigorous or anything. i also think that sex work in general should be separated from prostitution because, say, phone sex isn't going to have the same problems as streetwalking.Infinity Biscuit wrote:See I think sex work should be open especially since I know a few who do it on the side for extra income and because they want to, but yeah the fact that it tends to be something that people fall into without any other recourse and are massively abused and sucked into cycles of shittiness and so there's obviously so much that you'd have to look at and I dunno and the people I know exceptions to the general trend
but anyway anyone who argues it as a "yes it's entirely a rational choice because that's how the world works right people never do things that hurt them due to being forced into it right" is a shitbutt
Things like this are fuckin tricky because there's an overlap between empowerment of women and women being trapped into patriarchal shittiness and as good as things seem our society's set up where the latter's gonna end up taking the lead all things being equal
The whole sex-positivity movement has that fine line thing going on ugh
I'd imagine that most people of the "make prostitution legal" camp probably tend to think that, by legalizing it, this is what would tend to happen by default. Sure there'd still be bad elements but that can be said of just about anything and theoretically all those Vice Squads that currently exist (in the US at least) would be repurposed to dealing with the latter while trying to uphold the former.Infinity Biscuit wrote:Yeah the people I know were in situations where they could turn down clients and were in control of the situation the whole time, which is the only way sex work should be.
it is not only practical, it's actually been done on various scales and has worked pretty wellevilsoup wrote:I really need to do the sums on that guaranteed minimum income idea
I mean it's probably wildly impractical, but it appeals to me
destigmatising the johns you meanevilsoup wrote:then again, arresting their clients would also drive them off, so maybe full legalisation would be the best way to go. It would also go some way to destigmatising prostitution, which is a good thing I think.
imagine the infomercialsanyway if prostitution became legalised, I just have horrible visions of the jobcentre signposting the unemployed to a brothel for work
christ it could even end up being an unpaid 8-week work experience thing
I may have to write this up as a script and send it to Charlie Brooker
designer bodies of an 11-year-old with a moneyback guarantee that she's actually totally legal"why have boring sex with your horrible wife when you can do it with a professional! no more need to feel ashamed of your pedophiliac power fantasies, monetary exchange clears all guilt"